I don’t like resolutions. I shy away from predictions. I am more of a “goals and objectives” kinda gal. In – SHOCKER – a list form! Here are some of my goals for the coming year:
- Read the Bible AT LEAST daily.
- Become more active in my church. Also, if I’m uncomfortable with that, find a church that I am comfortable with doing that in.
- Keep blogging. I love to journal and I love the feedback that I get. It’s not usually in comments, but rather in emails or direct messages that are from close friends. I appreciate that so much.
- Do more random acts of kindness. How about making them NORMAL and not RANDOM?
- Disney. Again.
- Make sure my teenagers know how very special they are…and then keep telling them. Every day. I see so much hurt in teens all over the place and I need to be SURE I don’t have that under my roof. Ever.
- Be more expressive of my feelings in person. I have a pretty hefty problem of expressing myself if you’re in the same room with me. Over blogs, texts, emails – I can rock out words a plenty. I need to get over it.
It’s so hard to believe that it’s come and gone. That the long-awaited day of celebrations of our Savior’s birth…with presents and food and family has happened and is now a memory. As I upload the photos to my computer and try to process the frenzy of the last few days….I thought I’d list out some things that I hope I remember a year from now…or even 5…but hopefully 30. You know I can turn anything into bullet form. 🙂
- Oatmeal cookies are good. But making them is NOT an easy task.
- My boys DO count presents.
- Mama will let you help. If she has a debilitating illness.
- Family really is the best part of it. Hands down.
- If your husband buys you that Kitchen-Aid mixer, he WILL expect you to USE it.
- When people say “if you need me, just call” – they might really mean it.
- Santa can find his way in even if you don’t have a chimney, a special key for him or sleigh parking.
- The more you say “I’m not going to overdo it this year.” is proportional to the amount in which you WILL.
- Kids are really fun to watch open presents. The wonder, the surprise, the smiles…it just makes the hustle and bustle and money and time SO WORTH IT.
- It really is better to give than receive. Honestly.
- There is no better party than a pajama party.
- McDonald’s really is the only place open. Really.
- Being able to help your parents out more than ever is still rewarding even if your Mom is sick and that’s the only reason she let you do most of the grocery shopping.
- Having a sick mommy on Christmas is pretty much the same as having a sick kiddo at Christmas. Feels just as yucky and you want to take it away for them!
- Real friends wear pajamas to your house. And don’t care that you’re still in them.
- Reading the Bible on Christmas Eve with your kids is actually that awesome. Having a husband that explains things and is so patient with them is even more awesome.
- When it’s all said and done and your four year old lists out a few toys as her fave parts of the day….but ends with, “but spending time with my family was the best thing ever” – it’s okay to cry. It’s probably preferred to exploding internally.
Merry Christmas to everyone reading. It’s been a great one for us and I hope it has been for you as well!
So, I did this earlier with my great-grandmother’s picture…and I thought it was time again. Chose THIS GUY…since it was just his birthday and I had this awesome picture of him!
That man right there is my Daddy. He’s a great husband to my Mom, a wonderful Daddy to us girls, and a fabulous Papa to all the grandkids. This pic was taken at his birthday party just a couple of weeks ago. It makes me think of a few things:
- to get my Daddy to smile straight on in a pic – IMPOSSIBLE
- his laugh, which is contagious
- his love of San Felipe where he orders “pollo VANDITO” every time, no matter how many times I correct him (fundido)
- our Sonic dates when I was a teenager…every Friday night
- his height…six feet six inches..he has always been the “jolly green giant” to me
- him taking me to my first race in 1989…getting vomited on and leaving early! LOL
- Darrell Waltrip
- that stache. (Victor Newman? LOL Weekend at Bernie’s??)
- I remember hanging out with him when my mom worked in retail and we would order pizza, those were some of my favorite nights!
- That time we sat on the floor together to watch Miami Vice and he ended up with knee surgery (womp womp wompppp)
- I also remember the gut-wrenching feeling of disappointing him (too many times)…and the hurt look in his eyes…thinking there was NO way he could feel as bad as I did (as a parent know, I know that’s not the case)
- If you know my Dad, you know he watches commercials. All of them. And he likes to talk about them. And I secretly sometimes watch the funny ones so we can talk about them. 🙂
- Seeing him and Christian build things when Christian was about 3 or so….melting my heart.
I am so blessed with a Daddy. Not a “father’ or a “dad”, but a DADDY. He’s always been there for me and still is. As a teen, when I thought I’d done that THING that would make him not love me anymore..it was when he surprised me and was more present than ever. In my adult life now, I am so very thankful for my childhood relationship with him and even more for the grown up relationship too. I truly believe I married someone that’s somewhat like him – and that makes me so very proud.
So, I’ve been a bad, bad girl. I haven’t been on FB to post every day what I’m thankful for! <Gasp!> (Before you think I’m talking about YOU, I did it last year and I didn’t hate it….so I’m not judging.)
But, we all know by now, I’m a list girl. I’m thankful for lists. That’s all! Good night, thanks!
- My personal relationship with my Lord and Saviour. (If you don’t have that, please talk to me!)
- My sweet, considerate, funny hubby. Our relationship is crazy strong and we are just getting started! (Six years…)
- My kids…all three of them are so different but such great combinations of personality, wit and charm. (And sarcasm.)
- My family, every single member of it. Both sides. All sides. Especially the relationship with my Mom. Always there for me. Always willing to listen. Also, the relationship between myself and my step-wife (my step-son’s Mom if you are not in the know) is such a blessing. No drama, just working together for the good of our families that are intertwined. Makes perfect sense, huh? 🙂
- Our home. Though we are trying to sell it…it has provided shelter from storms, cold (hmm), heat and rain…we’ve welcomed a new life into this home together and had many moments of cheer and sadness as well.
- My job and it’s blessings..coworkers…my team..my boss..my friends made and kept there…
- Yoga pants
- Short hair (don’t care)
- Talenti gelato
- My wonderful family physician…Phillip takes such good care of us ALL!
- A clean house and the fabulous lady who makes that possible!! (Love my cleaning angel!)
- That all my kids are potty trained!!!
- Social media. It’s been a lifeline at times for me. Might sound sad..but it’s true.
- Lifetime movies
- Nordstrom personal stylists. Sometimes when I put on one of the outfits she put together for me I’m still shocked that I’ve gone outside the box on some things.
- Hallmark Channel
- Dasani water
- Bojangles. Just yes.
- Thyroid medicine. Makes such a difference.
- Excel. Pivot tables. V look ups.
- Fantasy Football – gives me a reason to watch and spend time with my boys and hubby
- Blogging. A healthy outlet for me.
Our time at the beach was short but it was FUN. I’ll write in detail about it later I’m sure…as I’m exhausted and am going to listen to my body and rest. For now, here is my reminder and your tease…in list form:
- Daddy’s driving
- Our Beach Residence
- Value of FaceTime
- Hamburger Joe’s
- Wonder Works
- HomeGoods and my chevron finds
- Skywheel at MB
- Krispy Kreme
- Teenage Boys
- Post-Mono Vacations
So, many bloggers have a “Wordless” something post where they add a picture with no caption or explanation. I thought I’d do something a little different since I am
rarely never wordless and in fact have many, many words to share and do so quite often.
I decided to browse through my iPhoto album on my Mac which includes new and old photos…and stop on the one that evoked the most emotion. What I stopped on was this sweet woman:
It is my great-grandmother, Myrtle. She was my “Ma”. She was everyone’s “Ma”, really. Her picture reminds me of many things…
- ear-bobs and ruffled shirts
- exquisite clothing
- frozen pizza with added toppings like ketchup and bacon
- her art…capturing flowers or birds or fruit, in the most amazing of ways
- Richard Petty
- chicken pox
- panty hose and black shoes
- her poised demeanor
- a formal “front room” where the Christmas tree was placed each year
- low-pile carpet
- her chair in the corner where she’d read or sew or talk
- the gift of gab…she loved to talk (and I loved to listen)
- her art supplies under the stairs
- claw-foot tubs and the walk through between closets
- attics full of treasure
- my first Papa
- the stool beside her bed, the cause of many falls
- Psalm 23 (on the wall beside her bed)
- pies cooling on the porch
- pecan trees and squirrels
Basically, it takes me back to being a child. Of my mom letting me stay with her when I had the chicken pox. She folded out the couch for me and took such good care of me. She waited on me and enjoyed it. So much. And what she probably never knew was, having chicken pox was one of my favorite childhood memories.
So, this blog challenge title doesn’t offer a lot of direction. You could probably go one hundred different ways with this one but let’s go with a bulleted list, because they are my fave currently. When I talk about my family below…I am talking about all of us. My mom and dad, sister, brother in law, nieces, aunts, cousins, uncles, hubby, our children, in-laws, step-family, outlaws, and even friends who are family. I truly believe all of them are considered family and I am so very blessed with a great one. I probably don’t tell them often enough how fabulous they are…but I sincerely am amazed at the support, resilience, talent, generosity, consideration and pure love that members of my FAMILY possess.
So, in short…
is full of love
is mostly in Sanford
loves any reason to get together and EAT
is there for one another
has never let me down, when it really really mattered
just got a little bigger (new baby niece!!)
makes me happy
is not perfect
includes kids who are amazing and teach me so much
loves to laugh
loves to have down time
doesn’t see each other enough
values each other
has overcome trials
is blessed beyond measure
made me who I am and still shapes who I’m becoming
I love you all….so very, very much.
So, the instructions were this:
Put your music player on shuffle and write the first ten songs that play…
- Casting Crowns – Already There
- Third Day – Trust in Jesus
- Natalie Grant – Greatness of our God
- Taylor Swift – The Best Day
- Fresh Beat Band – Another Perfect Day
- Ali Dee – World’s Gone Crazy
- Golf Boys – Oh Oh Oh
- Aerosmith – Crazy
- Boys II Men – On Bended Knee
- Kari Jobe – We Are
Oh how I love that Fresh Beat Band made the list. And Golf Boys! This makes me laugh because this is honestly a dream playlist right here, to me!! Now I’m going to shuffle again, just for good measure…and the fact that I’m being forced to watch Good Luck Charlie. 😉
- Lady A – Just a Kiss
- Alicia Keys – No One
- Blake Shelton – Red River Blue
- Jason Aldean – Country Boy’s World
- Kenny Chesney – The Life
- Natalie Grant – Desert Song
- Rascal Flatts – Here Comes Goodbye
- Matthew West – My Own Little World
- Fresh Beat Band – Here We Go
- Aaron Lewis – Country Boy
So, clearly, the only thing that really proved? That I own the Fresh Beat Band complete album. I’m going to cry in a corner now….
Here is what I ate today, only it was yesterday – Sunday, August 12 –
bacon biscuit (convenience ruled as I was about to get sick #thanksthyroid)
around 3/4 a cup of my homemade white bean chicken chili (with one Ritz Cracker sprinkled in)
For reference ~ here is my chili in progress ~
half a container of yogurt
3 frozen grapes
small bite of cheesecake (totally not the worst thing ever – modified no bake cheesecake w/ splenda in crust and 2% milk)
2 frozen grapes
Small portion of hamburger (lean) steak, mushrooms, brown gravy (not REAL gravy, mind you), brown rice
another small bite of cheesecake (ARGH!!)
lots of water
Here are my FIVE pet peeves…..
- Tardiness – meaning, for anything. Work, lunch, church, bills…..just don’t be LATE!
- Misuse of words – like the whole your, you’re…there, they’re, their thing! Oh so irritating!
- The phrase, “That’s the way we’ve always done it”. I’m too “process improvement oriented” to like that.
- Disrespect of my time. If you’re going to be late (see #1), at least let me know it. (Basically, don’t be late. But if you can’t catch on to THAT, call me.)
- People who don’t take responsibility for their own actions!!!!!