Since we moved into our home three years ago, we were blessed to hire someone to clean it. I honestly don’t know that I have ever deep cleaned the house until after I retired on 7/15. I seriously forgot how satisfying it is to see something dirty and make it clean. To have the vacuum lines…the clean counters… Maybe I’m OCD more than I admit. I love the fact that I can declutter and rearrange and my hubby comes home and notices. Silly little things but in this season of sickness for my life, it is very rewarding to have something – anything, to feel that I have a little control over.
I decided last Thursday to make a consultation appointment (only my third in about 12 twelve years) to see about LASIK surgery. What I didn’t decide was to consider the possibility of them having an opening the next day. However, I knew it was good timing for me (Friday afternoon) so I agreed.
My appointment was around 2 so I worked and anxiously awaited my appointment. Scooted up to Raleigh and started the three-ish hour barrage of tests, dilations, more tests, videos and questions. It went great. The staff and doctors were amazing. I never felt pressured or uncomfortable. They were so helpful and when they confirmed that I am (still) a candidate for all laser LASIK surgery…..my heart jumped! I honestly thought I’d go home and talk it over with Mike….decide…..call them back. However, it didn’t go quite that way. Here is a rundown:
Nurse: You are an excellent candidate. Is this something you’d like to get scheduled?
Me: Give me just a second.
My text to Mike (verbatim): Baby! I can do it, they said I’m an excellent candidate. What do you think?
Mike’s text to Me (verbatim): YES. DO IT. It’s your eyes.
My text to Mike (verbatim): But what about the cost?
Mike’s text to Me (verbatim): BABY, DO IT. As soon as they can.
Me to Nurse: Okay! When is the earliest?
I expected her to say something that rhymes with Brovember. However, she rattles off…..NEXT FRIDAY WORK FOR YOU?
I was almost as stunned when I realized that indeed it would work.
So, this Friday, I’m having LASIK surgery on my eyes! I can’t be more excited! I’m at the point of having to wear my glasses for the four days pre-surgery and WOW they are annoying me more than ever! I think it’s the absence of CHOICE….I don’t have one! It will be so worth it but I’d give anything to wear my contacts right now!!!!
I left out a funny part of the story….when they dilated my eyes….it was just WHOA! More than ever. It just made me crazy!! Christian went to the appt with me and he was laughing at me…we went to dinner and met Mike….more laughter……went to hockey game….you get the picture. Even so, I had to take one………….check.out.those.pupils.
No, not starting a business…not closing a business or minding my business….just I’m BUSY!
Moving, Disney, kids, summer, work, etc etc etc have kept me from stopping and trying to remember any of it…that makes me sad. However it makes me MADcrazyHAPPY that I have been too busy to notice. Lately the only thing I even WRITE is my prayer list (which seems to get longer by the day – sadly) so sitting down to type is unthinkable one some days!
Moving has definitely been the time suck of the year! Hmm, I guess technically “moving” itself wasn’t the time consuming activity….that was over in a day. Filling a house has been the thing….buying new things, repurposing old ones, shopping for bargains, creating new memories in a new space. It’s been EXHAUSTING…but most of all…it’s been FUN!!! It’s one of those things that makes it so apparent to me that crazy times bring out the MOST of what you have the most of. If you have love and fun and happiness, you will get more of THAT. My sweet husband has been so awesome throughout this transitional phase of having a new space to live in…..he’s dealt with my shopping habits, my chevron obsessions and my need to decorate every nook and cranny with some form of turquoise, aqua or gray! My kids have totally enjoyed finding their own new things and old things alike and have been such troopers about keeping things clean and organized. My Mom has been….an angel! She has loved shopping for me and crafting and lending a hand or elbow or whatever was needed. My niece helped unpack like a madwoman and it was a great time to have my entire family…inlaws, parents, niece and her boyfriend, sissy and her hubby and my baby niece….my kids…our friend Zoe…it was just awesome. I have had more visitors in a month than I believe I had at my former house in the seven years we lived there! It’s just fun getting opinions on decor and organization sometimes, right? ((OH AND THERE IS THAT POOL PROJECT THAT I HAVE NIGHTMARES ABOUT!!! SO MANY DECISIONS…….EEEEEK.)
Getting the kids ready for back to school…fun times. My kids will all be at the same school and I’m thrilled about that. MJ is starting K5 and I can’t even believe it. The speed at which time has flown is amazing. I’d like to say I’m dealing with my baby going to school very well but I’m not a liar. She’s so ready and I want to show her how excited I am for her and I do…and then I fall apart alone!! WHEW! It will be all fine and well next Friday after it’s been a day and we’ve had “that” day and she did fine and was happy and didn’t hold onto my leg for dear life. (Dear God, please don’t let that happen. Amen.) The boys are kinda “meh” about school starting back….but that’s to be expected at 12 and 15. Happy for them to get in there and get it going though!
Mike’s promotion + school = CRAZY! Many nights when we first moved in (he had finals then), I didn’t see him after dinner because I couldn’t stay up until he got in bed! Work has been busy for him as well….he hasn’t even played much golf lately!
TO BE CONTINUED…………I can’t even stay awake!!!
I was thinking of making a point to blog about the progress of our move. I missed out on that though. We are here, unpacked and all decorated – NOT! We are here….we are 92% unpacked I’d say…and the decorating is a work in progress and of course the most fun part! I have enjoyed dreaming (pinning on Pinterest) and shopping (very little) and seeing a room come together (okay, one bathroom) more than I realized I would.
Let’s sum up the last few weeks….
June 14th – Friday
8:30 am – movers arrived at old house, started loading
9 am – walk through of new house
9:30 – close on new house
10:30 am – keys in hand, met movers at new house
12:30 pm – movers done, we started unpacking (with help and moral support from lots of family….my fave part)
1:00 pm – new furniture arrived followed by Windstream, Dish Network…Mike hung blinds….
June 15 – 16 – Saturday & Sunday
Unpacked, cleaned, more family came over….Dad hung ceiling fan in living room…assembled a few things….
June 17 – 18 – Monday & Tuesday
Both of us worked and came home to pack…again…for vacation. Yes, we did that.
June 19 – Wednesday
4 am – Departed for Disney World, we drove (ok, Mike did)….stayed until Monday, June 24th….FAST FORWARD
June 24 – Monday
Christian’s 15th birthday….
4 pm – Returned home from Disney
6 pm – party for Christian at our house (FUN!)
June 25 – Tuesday
Both Mike and myself took vacation for this day as well to recover a bit. We ended up spending it shopping, picking up the last of the TVs, finishing a bathroom decor….and enjoying the company of my sweet Zoe (family friend that we are blessed enough to live so so so close to now!)….great day!
June 26 – Wednesday
Back to reality. Worked today and came home to cook my first meal. HA! Hot dogs and french fries – nothing but the best! 🙂
I really feel like the last few weeks have been a blur…an absolute blur…but it’s been so awesome and all for the best. I’ve enjoyed seeing more of my family, starting a new chapter as we make this house a home and celebrating my baby boy’s birthday….life is so awesome! God has blessed us so so so much and I’m ever so grateful for these blessings…
I love those times when I think I don’t have a life…things to do…much going on. HA! Enter June. We have a few things going on, like: selling current home/buying new home/moving into new home/packing up the rest of current home/vacation (shhh)/Mike has like 5 Dr appts/I have two weeks of vendor/customer meetings. Add to that an already full platter of things to do…my oldest son is turning 15….what??…..Father’s Day……ACCCKKKKKK!!!!
So, that’s not the excuse that I haven’t posted. I have just been living life instead of writing about it. It’s a catch 22 though. I love reading back over what I was thinking/feeling at a certain time. Maybe with all this change in my life I will be sure to capture it somehow in word. It is absolutely crazy all that we have going on….but I am so incredibly excited and happy. And…BLESSED.
Mike won a gift from the Marriott in downtown Raleigh while playing in a golf tourney last year. That’s what we are up to. We planned out this night to take advantage of a free night here…
Very cool view…ice skating rink on Fayetteville. We are on the 17th floor! We had dinner at 42nd street and it was delish as always.
My heart though, is with my Sanford family and friends. We lost a great man this afternoon in Mike Moody. He was a special man and fought a disease that all too often wins. I feel for his family…for my Daddy, his buddy…I just can’t imagine the feelings they are all experiencing tonight. If you’re reading this, whatever brought you here, would you please pray for them?
I’m off now to enjoy the rest of this night with my hubby. I’m so appreciative of this time together. Being married to my best friend for the last 6.5 years has been one of my largest blessings. Night!!
I’m not ashamed to admit that my almost 5 year old sleeps with my husband and I. Every night. I.Love.It. She’s my last “baby” and we have a king size bed. We also have a healthy relationship, parents that babysit and two grown boys that hardly even want to SIT with us. I am sure that because this August, she starts school and has to have more of a routine, we will begin to transition her to her bed. But for now, and for the last almost five years, it’s been a blessing to me. My 14 year old used to be my buddy but is “too cool” for me now…so this has been nice. I’m sure things will change and one day she’ll too think I’m not cool enough to hang with. I’m just enjoying this piece of her life right now and the place she’s at.
Even if it means a foot in my back every now and then.
So, sometimes I am just not in the mood to blog. Sometimes if I’ve just had a bad week or day or whatever, I just don’t feel like writing about butterflies or rainbows (I have never actually blogged about either of those, so don’t waste your time looking!). Sometimes I prefer to spend time writing an email to someone or having a serious conversation with my sweet husband. Sometimes I am just busy and I don’t blog on my iPhone. On the flip side, there are times when I WANT to blog something out. I want to type and type and type and I can’t get to my computer fast enough. (Some of those blogs are still in draft/incognito mode because I’m not even sure where to categorize them!! LOL) I have many motivating factors in my blogging…but most of all…I want to remember and to use this as snapshots of my life. I want to look back a year and think about where I was or where my head was. I want to have an easy place to do it. I also love to write about my Lord. If that were to EVER make someone want to follow Christ, that would make it alllll worth it. Another motivation? If I am totally honest: boredom. Sometimes it’s late and I just want to do something right before I fall asleep. Whatever the motivation, when I’m done, I’m happy that I got it out no matter how heavy or light-hearted it could be. I like to remember!
The funny thing about blogging is the release…the things that it makes me think of..the raw emotion that sometimes comes from it. My memory fails me at times, but once I start to remember a time or event or a person because of a blog I’m writing I am right back there. It is therapeutic. It’s amazing, actually. Some people have the most vivid memories of things…but I feel like I have to really reach for key details and visuals. But when I’m writing about it, it comes much easier. I start on it and I have to stop myself from writing it because I could go on and on and on. I spend a ton of emotional energy when I am writing about the past or about my feelings. I do it without a thought of who might read it, who won’t read it, how many people are “following” it…because that’s not the point. The point is to remember, to look back and smile…or to have a good cry.
Either way, I remember.
As a reminder, I’m doing the blog challenge that NaBloPoMo has set up and the theme is energy!
You know there are some songs that just do it for you? Some that when you’re working out or walking or just riding in the car you just want to MOVE? Funny how a song can get you up and moving after you’ve been perfectly content to sit on your butt for an hour! The song that currently does it for me is Taylor Swift’s “22”. I love the beat…and it doesn’t hurt that my daughter seems to know every word to it! It definitely gets me going!!! I need it now so I can finish the laundry – bye!!! 🙂